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My
mother was a constant visitor of people, especially to those
less fortunate, in those days, than us. As children we used
to visit the Almshouses and since, I expect, they didn't
see many people they were glad to see us. Tom Adsett, who
had lived in the village and had been head keeper before
he retired, was another character. He had come to the estate
with the Smiths from their estate near Henley in Oxfordshire.
He had a delightful way of speaking with a real West Country
burr. Jim Cook was another gamekeeper and when he retired
I employed him at Great Bradley. He was a fine shot. Alec
Sadler was the postman. He it was who delivered the telegrams
which Mrs. Pemberton Barnes used to exchange with my father,
although they lived less than a mile apart. She was an eccentric
yet very kind-hearted character, especially with children.
Ernie
Bailey, who latterly lived in Little Thurlow, was a groom.
He had been in the regular army and when riding with us
he told about life in the army in Egypt, when he and his
mates nearly died of thirst in the desert a tale
embellished no doubt because his listeners were children.
Mrs.
Barnes gave Little Thurlow a sort of village hall, the architecture
of which reflected her eccentricity. At times when she would
appear at a gathering no one knew what mood she was in.
Certainly once my mother reported that Mrs. Barnes had hurled
apples and abuse at the ladies on the platform who were
obliged to take cover. It did not do to ignore this lady,
even if it meant getting out of bed late at night to accept
her letter or telegram. Once the Estate had to carry out
an alteration to her house which did involve altering a
window in some degree. The intrepid Mrs. Barnes at once
had a large notice put up in front of her house saying "The
Lord is my light".
My
father had a succession of agents, the last of whom was
George Senior. George Dale, a Yorkshire man, was my father's
chauffeur. Latterly he drove a Buick, but he never drove
very fast. When cleaning a car he would "siss" continually
as if he was washing down a horse. Like many chauffeurs
in those days he had been used to dealing with horses and
was unused to filling up with petrol and oil, only with
water. The earliest car I can recall at Thurlow was my uncle's.
I think it was a Ford.
Captain
Frink and my mother did not agree on what to do when nearing
a crossroads. One held that you should accelerate to get
over quickly, the other that you should slow down and hoot.
Not so much hooting is done these days! Talking of Captain
Frink (my godfather) I recall his labrador Bruno lying in
the middle of the main road outside his house. There was
so little traffic in the early fifties, and no doubt it
slowed down and did not disturb the old dog.