Kate
and Colin Atherton have lived in Thurlow
for the past twenty years, first at
Trudgetts and then at Manor Farm. Their
sons Richard and Peter were brought
up here. Richard is now working in London
and Peter is at Warwick University.
Colin works as a design engineer in
Duxford for "Hexcel" and Kate is a principal
lecturer at Anglia Polytechnic University.
Colin
was born in Royal Leamington Spa but
moved every few years, eventually settling
in the Birmingham area where his father
was a policeman. Kate was born in Sprowston,
Norwich, and Richard and Peter were
born at Mill Road Maternity unit in
Cambridge.
Richard
and Peter both went to Thurlow school
and Parkway, Richard moving on to Castle
Manor and Long Road Sixth Form College
and Peter to County Upper School, Bury
St. Edmunds. Thurlow school was so near
home that their labrador dog used to
join the children at break and Kate
often received phone calls to come to
collect her dog. The school and community
were very well integrated; the school
benefited from any surplus local produce,
and strawberries, rhubarb and fresh
vegetables often appeared on the lunch
menu.
Sailing
is Colin's favourite leisure pursuit.
He teaches children dinghy sailing at
Lackford and in Norfolk, and two years
ago they bought a boat which they themselves
sail on The Broads in the summer. Gardening
and reading are Kate's leisure pursuits.
They keep a very large garden and vegetable
plot with the help of Brian Rooks.
When
they were first here Kate started the
luncheon club and meals on wheels for
the elderly. Both were very popular
at the time when the majority of the
elderly couldn't drive and had never
owned a car. Many in the present population
in this age group own cars and do not
see themselves as elderly.
House
renovation has played a large part in
their lives. They first renovated Trudgetts
and now Manor Farm. They had the uncanny
feeling that Trudgetts was meant to
be theirs as the estate agents always
behaved as though they were expected.
When Manor Farm came on the market they
felt it was ideal for the boys to grow
up in. Now it is too big, but they cannot
think of anywhere else they would like
to live.
They
both prefer village to city life and
the immediate access to fields from
the garden means a lot to them. It gave
the boys freedom to go oV on adventures
without restriction, so that they enjoyed
the sort of idyllic childhood many families
only get by buying property abroad.
The boys
spent hours on the river with rafts
they had built themselves. If they ever
misbehaved the news arrived home before
they did! Everyone working in the area
knew who they were.
The
village school is friendly and positive,
and within easy walking distance. "Local
children are easy to talk to as they
look you straight in the eye." When
the boys were very young, groups of
children going to the school swimming
pool in the evening would stop outside
Trudgetts and talk to the boys through
the bedroom window. The people who kept
the village shop were also exceptionally
thoughtful. The boys' first expedition
to the shop was monitored all the way:
Kate rang Joyce (Fuller) warning her
they were on their way; Joyce crossed
the road to meet them, then saw them
back across again to go home.
Negative
aspects of living in Thurlow include
traffic noise which at certain times
of day (6.309.00 a.m. and 4.30
7.00 p.m.) is annoying, but it can be
totally quiet at other times. The lack
of public transport was particularly
difficult when the boys wanted to be
independent. Richard couldn't get to
Long Road sixth form college without
a lift, or Peter to the bus stop for
Bury without being taken the first five
miles by car. For cultural activities
and night-life teenagers have to find
some way of getting to Bury or Cambridge.
Diminishing
public services are another negative
aspect. At one time there were several
travelling shops fishmonger,
chip van, bakers, greengrocers and two
butchers, but all of these began to
disappear as the supermarkets got bigger.
Public services have also diminished
both boys had to wait over half
an hour when on two separate occasions
each was involved in a road accident.
One
of the greatest changes Kate and Colin
have seen is the change in attitudes
in estate management. It is now run
much more as a business and there is
an increase in transitory population;
house staff and grooms seem to change
more frequently. There is also an increase
in high-income house owners, who do
not mix with local villagers or send
their children to local schools. As
the number of tied houses has reduced,
these houses are rented for large sums
which
villagers can't afford. There was a
period when a housing association was
formed to build low-cost dwellings but
no land was available. Some buildings
have disappeared, for example two farm
houses, but by and large the fabric
of the village hasn't changed that much.
Although
some public services have disappeared,
the doctor still holds a surgery in
the village hall, and milk and papers
are still delivered; the mobile library
still comes. "One wonders for how long?"
Another change is the move of the pre-school
playgroup from the village hall to the
new premises at the school.
Soon
after the family came to Thurlow, when
Richard was about five, they were watching
the hunt. A fox lived under the barn
next door to Doris and Jack Rowlinson
and the fox went through their garden
and back under the barn, shortly followed
by the huntsmen. "Which way did the
fox go?", they enquired. In spite of
being keen hunt followers, Doris and
Jack pointed in the opposite direction.
Kate feels this typifies the ambivalent
attitude of many in the village: they
like to see the hunt, but are also relieved
at the fox getting away.