Beatrice
and Donald Loveday
have lived in
Thurlow for forty-six
years, forty-four
of them at their
present address,
a thatched cottage
on the Little/
Great Thurlow
boundary. Donald
was born in Great
Wratting where
both his father
and grandfather
lived. His great
grandfather and
great great grandfather
came from Little
Thurlow.
Don's
grandfather worked
for Tommy Tilbrook,
father of Spencer,
working the threshing
tackle, and his
uncle also worked
there until he
retired through
ill health, "probably
farmer's lung,
caused by dust
from the threshing
machine".
Beatrice
was born on the
island of St.
Helena in the
South Atlantic.
Their two sons
who grew up in
Thurlow have now
left home and
now live in Haverhill.
Don
worked for the
Thurlow estate
for forty-six
years until he
was made redundant.
He then worked
for three years
for St. Edmundsbury
Borough Council
until he was again
made redundant
just before he
was due to retire.
Beatrice
came to the U.K.
in 1948 to find
employment, there
being none on
St. Helena. She
worked as a house
parlourmaid for
a series of titled
people, including
Earl Fitzwilliam
of Peterborough,
the Rt. Hon. David
Astor and the
Vestey family.
Football
is one of Don's
interests and
he is chairman
of Thurlow football
club. But his
greatest interest
is steam engines.
He is chairman
of Thurlow Steam
Rally, with which
he has been involved
for eighteen years.
He visits shows
both locally and
in the rest of
East Anglia. Gardening
(vegetable and
þower) and
country and western
music are his
other interests.
Beatrice's interests
are cooking, walking
and visits to
the coast.
Beatrice
and Don like their
surroundings,
having a good
garden which plenty
of wildlife visits,
including woodpeckers,
two tame collared
doves which feed
at their feet,
and a tame fox
who visits once
or twice a week.
Don found it easy
to walk to work
from home as they
were close to
the boys' school
and it's a safe
area to live,
with a very low
crime rate.
They
feel the negative
aspects of living
here are the speed
of traffic, particularly
some 4 x 4 private
cars driven by
women taking their
children to school,
with mobile phones
up to their ears.
This annoys Don
very much. He
would "never do
this, as it is
such a dangerous
practice".
Beatrice
and Don have seen
many changes in
their life here.
People having
to travel out
of the village
to work; at one
time almost everyone
worked in the
village or nearby.
Recently a more
controlled use
of agricultural
sprays has brought
back some of the
wildlife. There
used to be three
buses a day to
Cambridge and
five on Saturday;
now there is only
one. Everyone
has to own or
have the use of
a car. "Many things
you have to pay
for now were free,
and you could
walk anywhere
without being
told you could
not go there."
Don
remembers when
there were ten
separate farms:
Church Farm was
run by the Tullock
family, Hall Farm
Gt. Thurlow by
the Ryders then
the Vesteys, Goldings
Farm by the Prykes
who also had a
butcher's shop
in the village
and Street Farm
by Doug Wickerson
and his father.
The Tilbrook family
(Spencer, Dora
and Evelyn) ran
Manor Farm and
Low Farm Temple
End. Top Farm
was run by George
Bridgeman (for
the Ryders) and
Church Farm Lt.
Thurlow by Donald
Kiddy who moved
to Wash Farm,
Lt. Wratting where
his son Stephen
still farms.
There
was also Collis's
small farm attached
to the windmill,
and finally behind
the vicarage in
Gt. Thurlow Glebe
Farm run by the
Dowsett family
(Gus Dowsett,
their daughter,
ran the village
shop). This last
farm was bulldozed
down thirty years
ago but there
are still the
remains of the
moated
farm house amongst
the bushes.
The
windmill itself
has been restored
twice, but not
to working order.
The timber for
the sails was
imported from
Canada and Albert
Paxman made them
just before he
died. It was partly
restored in 1964
by Rook and Son
of Haverhill and
a plaque inside
gives the names
of all the men
who did the work.
During
the 193945
War a Stirling
bomber returning
from a raid over
Germany crashed
in the meadow
behind the school.
All but two of
the crew bailed
out and were picked
up all over the
district. The
plane was on fire
as it came down
and ignited the
stacks in Manor
Farm yard, hit
the end of the
thatched barn
and then made
a huge hole in
the meadow. A
lot of the wreckage
is still buried
there, and the
crew (who were
all New Zealanders)
are buried in
Haverhill cemetery.
Another
Stirling bomber
crashed on Little
Thurlow Green
after taking off
from Stradishall
(an enemy plane
shot it down);
it landed on the
buildings opposite
Green Farm Barn,
setting them on
fire. Bert Mills
who lived in the
house next door
said the cattle
were released
and escaped. About
eight years ago
a huge propeller
was unearthed
during ploughing
and Don believes
this is now in
the Duxford museum.
Don
spent a lot of
time working with
Bert Mills "who
was a character".
Bert told the
story of how he
would leave his
house at 6 o'clock
in the evening
and walk down
the road, pausing
to talk to everyone.
He would have
a drink at the
Lion (now gone),
walk on to The
Cock pausing to
talk en-route,
arriving there
about eight, then
on to the Rose
and Crown, by
which time it
was time to return
home. Bert, "In
me later years
I could do the
whole trip in
fifteen minutes,
but by then the
art of conversation
was completely
dead." "Absolutely
true", agrees
Beatrice.
During
the war Thurlow
had its own fire
brigade. It had
a trailer pump
towed by a Morris
commercial truck
manned by part-timers,
Herbert Arnold,
Taffy Talbot,
Fred Atherton,
Tony Smith and
Jack Paxman. Sheila
Haylock, who ran
the Rose and Crown,
took phone calls
for them. The
fire engine was
used at several
plane crashes,
including those
in Thurlow and
one at Cowlinge.
Gt. Thurlow Hall
also had a fire
engine. This was
a Shand Mason
with a handpump,
and was horse-drawn.
Six men on a beam
pumped the water.
A 500 gallon horse-drawn
water tank was
used. "Modern
fire engines would
use 500 gallons
in two minutes."