For
the past twenty eight
years Valerie and Doug
Bush have lived at 122a
The Street, Lt. Thurlow.
Both are now retired;
Valerie worked as a
fore-court manager,
Doug as a buyer.
Valerie
was born in Hertfordshire
and Doug in Surrey.
They have many interests,
including gardening
and pets (two dogs and
two cats). Valerie enjoys
line dancing, dolls'
houses and helping mentally
handicapped people.
Doug enjoys woodwork.
Val
and Doug love the pace
of life in Thurlow,
"one step slower than
anywhere else". Crossing
the road straight into
open fields is another
positive aspect of living
here.
The
neighbourliness of the
past has gone. Many
of the older people
have left, to be replaced
by "transients on six-month
lets". There has been
a terrific increase
in traYc volume and
the size of lorries.
When still a toddler
their son was able to
play football in the
road and a passing harvester
was a spectacle everyone
went out to look at.
Doug
misses the wonderful
broad Suffolk dialect,
when "little old boy"
could be a man of 78
years, and "on the huu"
meant anything crooked.
The
doctor's surgery was
the centre point of
village life when everyone
gathered to learn more
about the people rather
than obtain medical
advice. Thurlow having
a doctor's surgery is
still a positive aspect
in village life.
Val
and Doug remember a
bad winter when nothing
could get through. Mr.
Vestey sent a tractor
with milk churns round
and everyone took jugs
for free milk. They
remember how well Mr.
Vestey looked after
"his people"; walking
round the village regularly,
and anything he spotted
needing
attention was seen to
immediately. Mr. Vestey
wore a hearing aid which
used to scream in church,
when the resonance upset
the volume control.
When
Val and Doug's daughter
was married in Gt. Thurlow
church it had been decorated
by Lady Mowbray for
a previous occasion,
which they were proud
to boast about. Their
daughter drove to church
in a carriage pulled
by two horses. Some
of the harness was missing,
and had to be collected
making her very late
at the church. Archdeacon
Childs rushed through
the wedding service
in seven minutes, then
at the reception was
soon enjoying a whisky.
Someone asked the Archdeacon
why he wore such long
vestments and was told,
"they are ideal for
poaching".
In
the early 70s a charity
provided a loaf of bread
for each member of the
family. They only needed
two loaves because their
son was only two, but
it was insisted they
take four. This practice
died out when people
started coming in their
Volvos and Daimlers
to collect the bread!
When
the steam engine rally
was held in Thurlow
and later in Gt. Bradley
and at Weston Colville
airfield, it really
belonged to Thurlow.
At that time Thurlow
fayre was a true country
fayre with "guess the
weight of the bull",
"welly throwing", and
"catching eggs". The
dog show was for fun,
not a race to collect
rosettes. Sally their
elderly sheep dog once
won.